Let's Be Real #3

Everyone is entitled to an opinion. No one else has to acknowledge, agree with or even know what your opinion is for you to simply have one. With that said (and yes, this is my opinion), it's very rude for people to be upset at others for choosing to express any kind of statement about any issue under the sun and have some other peon respond to it "Why are you worrying about that when you could be worried about this?" One of my Facebook friends actually posted this:


 "Instead of bothering with Kony, how about some of you would-be activists start taking up the cause of the Israelis?" 


Everyone needs something to focus on or hold on to, whether you agree with/believe in it or not. I'm not knocking nor am I supporting either causes mentioned but this kind of statement bothers me so very much because implies that one must choose a priority for the concerns of world issues and drama. 


Let's be real; if you don't respect my interest or concern for something, what makes you think I should abandon the thoughts and feelings my opinions have allowed me to create and suddenly jump on your bandwagon? It doesn't work that way homeslice. Respect is not given, it is earned. Making such insensitive and condescending statements like that are utterly appalling and make me wonder how people who say things of that sort still have friends.

The Harm of The Helicopter Parent

Greetings all! I'm doing something new as the post below is actually a Facebook status written by a good friend, mentor and all around classy lady; Ms. Cheryl Osborne Hansberger. She is a very wise woman who exudes kindness as well as an awesome sense of humor. Read and learn friends. 


- my dear friends who are mothers out there... 

I know you love your kids and want the best for them. I know you want them to transition into responsible, self sustaining adults. I know it's frustrating when they are under-motivated or don't share your urgency about this transition. Please do not EVER apply for a job on their behalf! What message do you think this sends to potential employers about your kids level of initiative and responsibility? And also, can you please teach them to follow simply instructions?

And for those of you who ignore this sounds advice, please be ready to stand outside the doors of our company, every single hour they are scheduled for a shift, and wipe their rears when they need to go, too.

Seriously?